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What to Do If Your Relationship Went Stale

What to Do If Your Relationship Went Stale

Despite what our daily schedules say, humans by nature crave novelty and variety—it's hard-wired in our brains to seek out newness. So, don't be alarmed when you start feeling less-than-excited about a current partner; believe it or not, this is entirely normal. If there are no other serious problems with the relationship, all you need is a refreshed perspective to get things feeling alive again. Read on for some simple tips to jumpstart your romance!

Start by Looking Within

It takes two to tango, and each half of the whole should bring equal amounts of energy to any romantic relationship. Can you trace the unhappiness you feel in your relationship to other areas of your life? Sometimes your relationship woes may be a part of a more significant issue that only you can unearth. The stronger you are as an individual will only strengthen your ability to connect, grow, and be present with loved ones in your life. So, do a personal check-in before you move forward.

Find Something to Look Forward to Together

Newness and novelty satisfy our natural sense of adventure. However, your romance may feel like it's in a slump due to a lack of variety. If you have the means, invest in vacations or other experiences with your partner. Having opportunities to remove your partnership from its regular context will give you a new perspective and new memories to share. When you can provide distance between your relationship and the monotony of everyday life, you are better able to reflect on the essential things!

Don't Be so Serious

Your relationship might be suffering from a case of “seriousness.” If so, learn to let go and get silly with your loved one. If you cannot infuse the tough times with lighthearted fun, everything in your relationship will feel weighed down and impossible to overcome. Learning to be playful will allow you to meet your partner in a way you perhaps have not, bringing that novelty into the mix. Who doesn't love a great laughing session—it's just what the doctor ordered.

Reminisce With Intention

We are all guilty of forgetting what is truly important when we get caught up in the details of our everyday lives. Every relationship has a romantic origin story—whether it was love at first sight or an entirely different and unique experience. Try reconnecting with your origin story intentionally with your partner. This intention can be as simple as retelling it from both perspectives, each writing out a story-like version of events or visiting familiar places and doing similar activities that remind you of when you first met. If you work to slow down time and handle your precious memories with care, you will feel an even deeper connection to each other and the magic that brought you together.

Don't fret if your relationship seems different than how it all began; everything is changing and in flux at all times. If you try these simple steps, you can re-establish a solid connection to the heart of your partnership. Enjoy your new adventures together while honoring your romantic past!

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